It wasn’t long after my break up with my last boyfriend that I found myself in another relationship (story of my life). This one was a very interesting relationship, we were two very stubborn people with strong characters that often clashed. I loved him very much but we were too similar in character and we would often fight over the smallest of things (I laugh now that I think about it).
He was one of those naughty boys that was always out and about, he was like ‘THE social butterfly’. He was always up to mischief and always had a mission to accomplish. Soon after we started dating, all these traits rubbed off on me and I think it freaked him out a little 🙂
With this relationship I was introduced to what I’ve heard, ‘an emotional relationship’ and… it drained me out, a lot! When he was in a bad mood, he would put me in a bad mood and I started doing the same to him, whereas normally I would ignore someone in a bad mood… or tease them (which I would do to the poor guy all the time).
So I would be having a good day or he would be having a good day but because the other was not happy we would throw the mood out on one another and it would ruin our day.
Things became stressful.
He was the jealous type and I was probably the worst person he could have been with as I love to socialise with everyone (when I’m in a party mood, normally I’m a shy person) .
I had more guy than girl friends and yes, this freaked him out some more, but because I was not willing to give up talking to my guy friends and doing what I wanted, it was one more topic added to the things we’d fight about. Eventually, we found ourselves fighting almost every night we were out.
